“As you think so shall you be! Since you cannot physically experience another person, you can only experience them in your mind. Conclusion: All of the other people in your life are simply thoughts in your mind. Not physical beings to you, but thoughts. Your relationships are all in how you think about the other people of your life. Your experience of all those people is only in your mind. Your feelings about your lovers come from your thoughts. For example, they may in fact behave in ways that you find offensive. However, your relationship to them when they behave offensively is not determined by their behavior, it is determined only by how you choose to relate to that behavior. Their actions are theirs, you cannot own them, you cannot be them, you can only process them in your mind.” -Wayne Dyer-
I start to realize that everything that I think about other human or any kind of situations around is came from the mind. The only one who think that it is a good one or a bad one. Black or white nor grey. It is come from the mind.
I actually thought even when human is strongly quite create some defenses to protect their credibility among the kind of a misunderstanding, their try to create some perception.
Where? In Their mind.
Perception about ‘what exactly happened?’
‘how could they thought like that?’
‘that’s not what I mean’
‘how could I ever understand you?’
So, I simply think that when I knew some people, I admit that I can't push them to be whom I wanted. Because I never be. I won’t be.
Your action is yours.
My action is mine.
bener bangeeettt di!!! nyoba bikin orang lain kaya apa yang kita mau, nyoba ngejelasin apa maxud kita ke org (ato sebaliknya), nyoba ngelurusin sesuatu, dll itu ibarat ngedorong tembok. smakin kuat kita dorong, yang capek ya kita sendiri.
BalasHapuskarna klo pikiran udah nolak, mau kaya apapun ya jadi ngga make sense. jadi yaaah~ bener banget tuh: "your action is yours, my action is mine" jadi klo udah capek, balik badan aja. hehehe!
hahah 'kalo uda capek, balik badan aja'
BalasHapusitu eloo banget ya,del? nyakakakakakk.. :p
in some case, ada jg orang2 yang berusaha banget 'ngancurin tembok' itu. yah,, maybe one in a million sih (mungkin). --> efek baca komik yg berhubungan sama ini. huahahahahah!
kan curcol di critanya, hahaha.. iya si, tp somehow tembok itu diciptain bkn buat diancurin, tp jd pelindung, pembatas, ato buat wisata kaya tembok cina *halah!.
BalasHapusyaaah, kecuali tembok berlin si, hahaha!
haha, tembok=pembatas, blabla.
BalasHapusitu terdengar seperti defense.
hihihihi, yok wisata tembok cina aja.
tembok berlin kan uda runtuh. *hahaha